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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-22 06:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #2059 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2059 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 045 secrets from Secret Submission Post #294.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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chanterofelegies: (|Margery/Keisaku| Kiss)

[personal profile] chanterofelegies 2012-08-23 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
Well, yes. These things are annoying. But I've never seen a fs secret about a male/female pairing with this disgusted attitude that they're being paired up and why can't they just be friends.

(Anonymous) 2012-08-23 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
Hang on, fandom pairings or real live people pairings?

For fandom pairings, I think I remember someone saying they hoped they never made Clint/Natasha canon, because they preferred them as platonic BFFs. This is not recent, but I understand there was some vehement opposition to romantic Mulder/Scully. Unfortunately, people are more likely to be ranting at the source creators, as far, far too many of the close male/female friendships on the screen actually turn into a romance in the source material. The fans don't have to make it up, it's thrown at them.

For real live people pairings, you can rant for three hours about how you wish people would stop assuming you're screwing your opposite-sex BFF, and no one will conclude you are anti-het. It's not a secret. If you want to rant about how you wish everyone would stop assuming you're screwing your same-sex BFF, you had better do it very carefully, or it will come off as anti-same-sex. People who want to express their frustration without being careful might choose to present it anonymously.