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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-22 06:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #2059 ]


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Re: OP

[personal profile] saku 2012-08-23 01:16 am (UTC)(link)
i suppose you might want to start with asking him how important sex is to him. if he expresses interest in having sex in the future, mention that you don't see that same future for you. i would recommend making sure to add that it's not him that's caused this, it's just how you are for everybody, and that you still love him romantically.

some aces are in open relationships to accommodate non-ace partners. other aces will have sex despite not getting much out of it, also as a way of compromise. but overall if you don't want to have sex, that's the end of that discussion completely. hopefully he'll be okay with this, but if he's not that's understandable too.