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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-22 06:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #2059 ]


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Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2012-08-23 05:35 pm (UTC)(link)
If I was in your shoes, I'd talk to him (face to face) and just try to explain that you've thought about it and come to the conclusion that sex just doesn't really interest you but that you still care about him and understand that, if sex is important to him, that it might be that you both want different things and maybe it would work out for the better if you were just friends?

Also, please don't feel so pressurised to label or define yourself to anyone. I mean, if it helps you to figure out who you are then sure, go for it, but honestly? There's no hurry and it works out better to go at your own pace and figure yourself out in a way that doesn't make you feel confined to behave in ways dictated to you by a label that you've branded yourself with.

That second paragraph got a bit ranty, sorry! Anyway, all the best and I hope things work out for you. :)