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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-22 06:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #2059 ]


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(Anonymous) 2012-08-27 07:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Agreed.
See, you're both cis, of opposite sexes and - as I assume - both hetero or bi.
That means you can make babies together and that means you will sooner or later be lovers. You can't fight heteronormativity (yet) and that sucks ass.

I'm having the same issues but slightly reversed.
Nobody believes my girlfriend and me are a couple until we'd be seen making out (something we're not doing in public because of homophobia and that sort of shit).
So wherever we go people just assume we're besties. Even if we tell them we're together, some guys just won't fuck off.

One time this one guy followed my girlfriend around on campus and hit on her constantly.
Even when he saw us exchanging a little kiss or holding hands he'd assume we were straight because a lot of straight girls do that to each other nowadays (and that's okay), but it seriously pissed us off.
Had my girl been with a dude he'd been all "oh, sorry, man! Didn't know she was with you".

Somehow people always want "proof" that we are legit in love with each other (most of the time by watching us having sex... which is another disgusting and objectifying thing we have to deal with in this "lesbians are truly straight hookers who'll let you watch and join if you just offer enough money or beg hard enough" society)