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⌈ Secret Post #2068 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Tiger & Bunny]

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[Queer as Folk USA]

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[Devil May Cry]

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[The Key of Awesome! Maroon 5 Payphone Parody: Game of Thrones]

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[Lorraine Star]

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07. http://i35.photobucket.com/albums/d194/throwme2thedogs/fablesecret.jpg
[linked for illustrated nudity/porn; Fable]

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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]

11. [SPOILERS for Kamen Rider Fourze]

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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]

12. [WARNING for sexual assault]

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13. [titc #2]

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14. [WARNING for rape, violence]

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15. [WARNING for eating disorders]

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Just explain that written materials are not good or evil - it's what you do based on what you read. If you just want to read something and enjoy it - even a guilty pleasure - that's OK. Just explain there's a difference between fiction and reality - just like because the Coyote can survive a fall off a cliff doesn't mean she can. After all, one presumes she's already read a LOT in her life she hasn't acted upon, or even wanted to, even if she enjoyed the reading.

Thanks!

If it makes you feel any better, I used to love Jackie Collins and pirate abduction "romance" novels when I was 13, and other erotica I could sneak, and they had no bearing at all on my love life as a teen or since. :-D

Oh, i've read stuff like that, too - well, a friend of mine would 'loan' me her books on the bus to read the 'good parts', which were, you know...soft core het porn.

But - i read the Gor books, too, and they're pretty ucky as far as 'this is how women are/relationships work', and while i never once thought they were 'real', when you're a teen, it *is* a little weird.

I mostly just want her to know that while experimenting with sexuality isn't bad, talking yourself into any kind of sex, including just making out, because you feel like you have to or they will 'leave you' or something is just....not on. And everything i've read about these books puts the main character in that 'abused partner' mind frame, which i really don't want her thinking is a good thing, or a normal thing.

Not having kids, I think what I might say is "this is a lifestyle choice BDSM people make when they're adults because that's when they know what they do and don't like. It takes a while to find out. Also, these subs may not be like this outside of sex, and Doms are usually well aware they're being granted permission to BE the Dom - and if the sub wants to leave, they cannot stop it. Also, a lot of Doms are women. Also, James is mixing up BDSM with plain old abuse, which is not the same thing. Please just tell your poor old mom you've had enough sex ed to not be doing anything right now."

Boy am I glad I don't have kids, LOL.

Hehee.
Me, too. One's plenty. It's terrifying, but good. Kind of how i imagine bungee jumping might be. Only i'd never do *that*.

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