[ SECRET POST #2071 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2071 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Important: I'm really sorry about this, but I accidentally misclicked and deleted the submission post from last week instead of saving it. Managed to save the first page (25) of secrets, but the rest (about 100 or so) are gone.

If you submitted something last week (Aug 26-Sept 1), please resubmit it here.

The submissions post for next week is below as usual.

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Comments

[lunabee34]

I have no answer for this, unfortunately. There's someone I follow on a site who is similar. If it rains, god is punishing her. No one has ever had it as bad as this person, and she lets us know in unending detail. She almost never posts anything anymore that isn't a whine. IDK what to do either.

[elaminator]

If it rains, god is punishing her.

No, that's Thor.

...But wow, both these situations sound...not fun.

I'd probably just not read their posts for a while, see if she's cheered up when you come back? It's good to be supportive, but there are limits to what you can do, and if a person wants to be...well...down, nothing you say is probably going to make any difference.

I used to know someone like this too. He could turn ANYTHING into a negative. After a few months or so of trying to be helpful and supportive I had to take a step back because it was too much.

[lunabee34]

Ahahahaahhahahahhaa. I'd let Thor punish me any day. Ahem. LOL

Avoidance does seem to be the best strategy. I mean, I sympathize with her real and legitimate problems, but at a certain point, it just becomes toxic for me to hear all the time.

[elaminator]

Ahem? More like amen!

It really can be toxic. And if you aren't having any impact on the person, there's no reason to do something that you know will bring yourself down too.

and we all say amen

[lunabee34]

I agree completely.