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fandomsecrets2012-09-03 03:25 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-09-03 03:25 pm
[ SECRET POST #2071 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2071 ⌋
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No, that's Thor.
...But wow, both these situations sound...not fun.
I'd probably just not read their posts for a while, see if she's cheered up when you come back? It's good to be supportive, but there are limits to what you can do, and if a person wants to be...well...down, nothing you say is probably going to make any difference.
I used to know someone like this too. He could turn ANYTHING into a negative. After a few months or so of trying to be helpful and supportive I had to take a step back because it was too much.
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Avoidance does seem to be the best strategy. I mean, I sympathize with her real and legitimate problems, but at a certain point, it just becomes toxic for me to hear all the time.
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It really can be toxic. And if you aren't having any impact on the person, there's no reason to do something that you know will bring yourself down too.
and we all say amen