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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-03 03:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #2071 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2071 ⌋

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Re: Question on sexuality- bi/pan/demi

(Anonymous) 2012-09-03 10:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I see "pan" as a bit broader than "bi" - "bi" is well known and the general conception of the word as the layman understands it is someone who likes both cismale and cisfemale people. When someone says they are bisexual, they aren't necessarily attracted to ftm/mtf/agender/neutrois/genderqueer/et cetera as well, though of course some are; when people identify as pansexual I feel it's safer to assume they are aware of the noncis parts of the gender spectrum and are open to those as well.

Demisexuality is on a different scale entirely between sexual and asexual. Asexual people, in general, have no interest in engaging in sex with other people, while sexual people generally have an interest in engaging in sex with people of whatever group they're attracted to though of course this doesn't mean they screw anyone and everyone in the group.

Demisexuality is somewhere between that where attraction only happens when a close emotional bond is also present; they generally don't do one-night-stands and don't find celebrities like actors or singers "sexy" as there's no personal emotional bond with them, but may feel sexual attraction to the person they're in relationship with. For demisexual people there's no such thing as "only sex" or "friends with benefits" and sexual attraction without emotional attachment doesn't happen.

This is all as far as I know, anyway.