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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-03 03:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #2071 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2071 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Important: I'm really sorry about this, but I accidentally misclicked and deleted the submission post from last week instead of saving it. Managed to save the first page (25) of secrets, but the rest (about 100 or so) are gone.

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Re: Question for Bi/Pan People

(Anonymous) 2012-09-03 10:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Some people are just wired differently I guess. I'm a lesbian and you can believe me that I've tried to be attracted to men in a romantic and sexual way. Sometimes when I was a teenager, I would just hope that I would wake up one day and be like "okay, I like guys now and I can be normal" but it never happened. I think I was very fortunate to have a supportive family and that I was able to come to terms with my sexuality and be happy with it. Because on the other side of the deal, you have men and women who try so desperately to be heterosexual that they end up staying in marriages for decades trying force themselves to be something they aren't (which is an incredibly shitty situation for both spouses).

As long as you aren't one of those bi people who go around telling gay people that they just aren't ~open minded~ enough and that it's impossible to only be attracted to one gender and maybe they should just try a little harder, then we're totally cool (and yes, I've had people tell me that and it's kind of offensive. And it's just as stupid when I see other lesbians side eye bisexuals because obviously they just want to ~turn men on by making out with another woman~. The LGBT community has issues)