[ SECRET POST #2071 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2071 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Important: I'm really sorry about this, but I accidentally misclicked and deleted the submission post from last week instead of saving it. Managed to save the first page (25) of secrets, but the rest (about 100 or so) are gone.

If you submitted something last week (Aug 26-Sept 1), please resubmit it here.

The submissions post for next week is below as usual.

Secrets Left to Post: ?? pages, ??? secrets from Secret Submission Post #296.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[citrinesunset]

Online/fandom friends can be friends, too, and I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to spend some time with them. There's also nothing wrong with not wanting to spend all your time with your IRL friends.

That said, if you're canceling plans a lot (and not just in really serious situations where you feel like you need to be there for someone else), that can be rude and will likely cause your IRL friends to get fed up eventually. If you have actual plans with someone, I think it's polite to try to follow through with them if possible. Maybe instead of canceling plans that were already made, you can make fewer plans so that when you do go out with IRL friends, it's something you really want to do.

If you're just saying you're busy when someone asks you if you want to make plans, I think that's fine as long as you're putting in enough effort to maintain the relationships that are important to you.