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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-03 03:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #2071 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2071 ⌋

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Re: Question for Bi/Pan People

[personal profile] citrinesunset 2012-09-04 03:31 am (UTC)(link)
Good question. On one level, I can get how someone might be only attracted to one gender, maybe because I've gone through periods where I was much more attracted to one gender over others.

But part of me is always a little surprised when I realize that for a lot of people, someone being the "wrong" gender is actually a deal breaker for them. Even when I wasn't that interested in being with guys, I always took it for granted that if a reasonably-attractive dude asked me out or wanted to sleep with me, I'd go for it and give him a chance. It wasn't my preference at the time, but it wasn't an impossibility or even especially unlikely, either.

I think I tend to imagine that other people feel the same way, until they say otherwise or I think about it more.