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[Truffaldino from Bergamo (1976)]

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[Zac Little/AngryFilmsProduction (YouTube)]

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13. [WARNING for rape]
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Same. Especially when male characters that I loathe are involved as well. What the hell does that say about me? I love the women, but get incredibly turned on by reading them get raped by men I think are repulsive?

...it tells me you have a masochism/submission kink? I do too, and I'll cheerfully fantasise about men I am absolutely not attracted to topping me in that way, because it's about the fantasy of having no power and having to let go and abnegate myself to a monster, more than anything else. IRL I'm only interested in fey, gentle dudes (and women).

Same anon... Whoops, reaching a bit there. I assumed you identified with the woman... But you might be identifying with the guy doing it to her? Or both? Identifying in some way is usually how lit porn works, I think.

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I know I identify with the rapist in my fantasies, be it rape of a male or a female character. I'm a woman and have no attraction to women in real life but for the longest time I would make up these scenarios or attractive, strong women getting raped by repulsive males to get off, and I saw myself as the guy. A few years ago I abandoned the female sub fantasy completely and now I'm purely into male on male non-con. I don't even know why or how this happens, it's like a switch inside of me that turns itself on and from time to time changes colors.

Prison officers 'stood guard while woman officer had sex with a dangerous rapist serving life in a high security jail'

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(Anonymous) - 2012-09-08 05:21 (UTC) - Expand

What do you mean by "fey"?

Fairies, twinks, poofs, milquetoasts, guys like that.

That you're a tool of the patriarchy, duh.

Funny. Woman dominated or raped by men: victim/tool of patriarchy.

Man dominated/raped by woman: So hot, OMG she's so empowerd!

But why am i even tralking to you people? It's not as if anyone in fandom would ever say something other than "Ooooh go away with your men-bullshit".

It's like fandom is infested with gender blindness, salivating after the cocks, fighting for empowering women but don't you dare stand up for an issue concerning men. It's like I'm talking with men about lesbian porn.

Same for me. I'm happy of not been the only one. And my bf is too kind always in bed even if I ask him to be less.

Ditto and I'm male. Of course I never tell anyone this because they would jump to omigod rapist creeper gtfo before I get the chance to explain to them I imagine myself as the woman.

I'm female and I imagine myself as the male rapist. Mostly.

Libidos be crazy, man.

Yeah, you know, me too. I'm a straight girl who's only ever had vanilla sex but sometimes in certain scenarios, I imagine I'm a man forcing a woman and it excites me quite a bit. Forcing her because I want to fuck her, not because I want to humiliate her.

Whoa.

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Out of curiosity, why does it have to be a female victim then?
I've heard this before, that many men in fact imagine themselves as the woman in the rape fantasy. But then I always wonder why it needs to be a woman in the first place? Why not a man getting attacked by a man, or a man getting attacked by a woman?
Is the opposite gender easier to use in such a fantasy, because...? (Also directed at the women imagening themselves as man raping a woman).

I'm not trying to be rude, I'm just interested in kinks :)

Definitely logging out for this one.

As a woman who fantasizes about being a man raping a woman, I think it had to do with being teased and picked on by other girls when I was growing up. I wanted to punish them in the worst way I could think of, and sometime during puberty I guess I eroticized that desire? The women I (as a male rapist) fantasize about raping resemble the girls who used to bully me. Took me a while to figure that out, but I think that's where it came from.

AYRT

It's a control thing. I think everyone other than Mens' Rights Activists can agree that men as a group have more power and privilege than women. A woman being raped by a man is often more helpless and at more of a disadvantage than any other combination of genders. Not because of who she is or who he is, but because of how society is and how they'll perceive and react to it. Also the fear of pregnancy and biological factors. It's a helplessness/powerlessness fantasy thing.

That's as far as I can explain it. I'm gay IRL so other than the helplessness kink it's a total physical disconnect. I don't even know how that part works myself.

Irrelevant comment: I'm always amused by Bettie Page's bondage photos. Her scared expression looks like she's trying to hold back a giggle fit.

I can write the exact same secret only with 'male' instead of 'female.' Every fandom I get into the first thing I seek is noncon of my favorite guy going through the most terrible sexual experience ever, to a point that I even scare myself.

It's nothing to be ashamed of OP. Kink is kink. We all have one, or a bunch. As long as you're not harming any real human beings you can fantasize as much as you want about anything you want.

You and me both. Rape of a female character does little to me, but if it's a male... Yeah. (It's preferable if his attacker is male too, but I've read a few fics where the attacker is female, and it has actually worked for me. Oh well, mainly yaoi/slash fan, so it figures.)

I have the same fantasies about male characters I really like and have respect for, it kinda makes me feel guilty afterward...

I do the same thing, with both male and female characters, and I tend to picture myself as the victim. Pretty interesting how several people imagine similar scenarios but get off to them in different ways.

You and me both, op. I'm glad I'm not the only one. It works especially well if it's a strong female character - also, this scenario also works for me for F/F pairrings.

Presuming that you're only interested in the fantasies and have no genuine wish for women to be raped in real life, there's nothing wrong with this at all.

Oh hey, me too! Usually I fantasize about non-con for a female character, but sometimes it'll be a man as well. It's very diverse. Female being raped by a male, female being raped by another female, male being raped by a male... I'm very particular about the characters I use for these fantasies. It's the ones I find exceptionally attractive.