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This shall be the place to ask help. We get a few posts everyday with people asking F!S for help and I figure it might get more views or help people out to have them all under one thread. So just reply here with whatever you need help with today.

Also figured a lot of people are all nervous and feel like they're not sure this is the place to get help - well now you can be sure this IS the place. Embarrassing or stupid or serious - ask away.

Use your subject lines! That way people can see what you need help with and are more likely to answer.

this is a good idea. :)

Edited 2012-09-11 00:06 (UTC)

I'm not really sure we should try to force these things. Which I appreciate isn't your actual intent anon... but I fear you'll get the attention whores and the whiners who just want drama and sympathy, especially if it becomes known.

Agreed. And I like that there are a bunch of posts asking for advice. It makes the place livelier (not wankier, just more active).

I don't know, I don't really see a problem with "attention whores" or "whiners" or drama people posting. Not like people are forcing you to reply. If you think they're not genuine in needing help, just scan on by and go on your way.

but make this a regular thing, and we'll become jaded, and start thinking they are all drama whores. Id rather leave it random and spontanious, and not encourage anybody to abuse it.

So... how "bad" do bad dreams have to be before they're worrisome? Is there like a limit even, or...?

I'll explain-- I've been having recurring dreams about being physical hurt, wounded, or dying. About once or twice a week, sometimes more often.

The thing is, they're usually all connected with something that has happened to me, or approximated a sensation I felt before. The latest one I had was last night, and I was throwing up blood from an ulcer. I have a doctor who suspects I have a ulcer, and while it's uncomfortable, I've not thrown up blood yet.

Other things like getting my throat slit, getting stabbed, slowly dying... The weird thing is, I'm never afraid of these dreams? They feel good. I wake up and feel peaceful after having dealt with some horrific bodily issue.

I have a long history of injuries that go untreated, so... is this just my mind's way of giving me closure?

Can you guys give me some advice?

I don't think it's really a concern if it's not impacting your health or sleep patterns. From what you've said, it sounds like they're just kind of weird but not negative really in any way. Sounds exactly what you said, your mind just processing the data and sort of getting closure.

I get what you mean anon, but I wouldn't come to a designated thread for things. I enjoy the freedom of just posting a query in the gen comments and the replies/advice I get from different people.

Making it a help line dicussion post...it adds a new level and kind of implies expectations and that who ever posting must be in dire straights. Like, if I was really upset over someone breaking up with me I would be reluctant to ask for advice for fears of people judging me as an attention seeker because it's the help line...

Much prefer how it's been going with people jsut posting their discussion/request no matter how big or small to the gen comments

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Bad dreams-- what the fuck is this?

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