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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-11 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2079 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2079 ⌋

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Re: TW mentions of abuse; guy who blabbed about girlfriend's abuse update

(Anonymous) 2012-09-12 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
This dude has some serious abuser red flags. And you are a stand up person for doing this and confronting the situation even though it's a really scary thing to do. Just remember, whether she leaves him or gets help or not is not your fault. Try not to feel too guilty, you've done pretty much all you can which is a lot more than a lot of people would do in the same situation.

Re: TW mentions of abuse; guy who blabbed about girlfriend's abuse update

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-09-12 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
I've pretty much acknowledged there isn't anything I can do to get her away from this guy short of getting her the help she needs and hoping that will help her develop the support, agency, and self-esteem to get out of the relationship. Of course if that doesn't work it won't stop me from feeling irrationally shitty so thank you for this comment.