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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-11 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2079 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2079 ⌋

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Re: Question about relationships and the bathroom

[personal profile] littlestbirds 2012-09-12 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
Hm. So you seem to be implying that this is about knocking vs "just walking in" but I suspect most people end up actually talking about it beforehand. Like, there's a progression from knocking to saying yes to implied permission. It's not about what you were taught as a kid, so much as what you negotiate between yourselves.

My bf won't tolerate anything and it's hilarious to me. Like we live together and have been dating almost 3 years, but I'm not allowed to see him pee? In fact, up to a year ago he would lock the door even if there were only two of us in the apartment. Now I've worn him down to allowing me to pee if he's in the shower. I think he's crazy, and I may be slightly obnoxious about it, but I respect his space.