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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-12 07:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #2080 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2080 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-09-13 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
I'm going to reply to this with a story I heard recently on the radio.

There was a little boy whose parents owns guns. The teacher asked people to say what he had done over summer. He told everyone that he had spent the summer in a cabin, and his dad went out and shot deers. The teacher asked if he had guns in his house, and he replied yes, not seeing a problem in it, because he had been to not touch them, and they were locked up. At that point, when recess started, a bully harrassed them the entire time saying 'what are you going to shoot me!? Fine shoot me! You have guns! Shoot me! I bet your daddy kills people with his guns, are you going to shoot me!? Shoot me! Come on!' This continued the entire lunch time as well.

Finally the little boy, in frustration said 'fine, I'll shoot you!' The other child reported him to the principle, and the little boy who was being bullied was expelled and now has to go to anger management, and has been labeled as a bully himself.


While some will say 'good, he is a bully, you should never react with violence', I think that someone can only get pushed so far before they say something that can't be taken back. You did this, and while people will rag on your for it, I understand that sometimes you can't help it, sometimes the only way to get it to stop is to scare them. Unfortunately this can get you in trouble too, even if you'd never act on what you've said. I applaud you for standing up, but I can't help but consider you a person who does not have the coping skills yet to deal with bullies, and next time I suggest you back away before you say anything again.

(Anonymous) 2012-09-13 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
I don't really think a frustrated boy blurting out a phrase that the other person was egging him on to say, really compares to what appears to be a premeditated post (with no after-regrets) from an adult.

(Anonymous) 2012-09-13 01:52 am (UTC)(link)
Bullshit. That would be all over the news with the media crying OMG THAT POOR LITTLE BOY. So fucking bullshit.

Late but w/e

(Anonymous) 2012-09-13 07:50 pm (UTC)(link)
lol, do you really think the news reports on every interesting thing that happens? People get decapitated by gangbangers and you don't hear a peep, do you think this small (in the sense that no one died, etc.) bullying thing just HAS to explode?

Re: Late but w/e

(Anonymous) 2012-09-13 09:38 pm (UTC)(link)
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Uh, the anon who told the story (I have no idea if that's you) HEARD IT ON THE RADIO. Which is, you know, news coverage. So I feel like saying "links or it didn't happen" is pretty justified here.

Re: Late but w/e

(Anonymous) 2012-09-15 04:12 am (UTC)(link)
decapitated by gangbangers

decapitated by gangbangers

decapitated by gangbangers

what is this i can't even