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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-12 07:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #2080 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2080 ⌋

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[personal profile] nyxelestia 2012-09-13 05:41 am (UTC)(link)
...and this is definitely one of the reasons why I won't be going to a psychologist to confirm or deny all my friends and family's suspicions that I have some mild form of autism any time soon. Or ever, really. I'd rather any asshole-ish behavior I still exhibit be called out and corrected rather than being coddled or letting shit like this happen.

Stand your ground, OP. If they weren't asking for critique, I can buy them ignoring you or asking you to not do it again/not bother in the future. I don't like it and I admittedly have a rather low view of people who do that, but hey, some people don't like it and that's totally their prerogative. But no matter how much you hate concrit, a three-page flame is absolutely an overreaction, and trying to claim that you can't control yourself, especially in a context entirely dependent on written correspondence, is bullshit. I'll admit, it's highly doubtful that they'll get IP banned, but they will eventually get bored, and you absolutely shouldn't take shit from anyone, no matter their neurological wiring.

As a side note...I'm not going to pretend this is in any way standard, typical, or the "right way" to react, but in my experience, most people who actually have some form of atypical wiring upstairs tended to appreciate people calling them out on their behavior and correcting it/offering advice, so long as everyone is polite about it. While I've known people who genuinely had one condition or another who blew up at anyone who tried to point out some behavior as being off or inadvisable no matter how nice or polite they were, most of the time they were just assholes trying to play the special snowflake card.