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⌈ Secret Post #2082 ⌋

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[Fate/Zero]

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05. [SPOILERS for Journey Into Mystery/Everything Burns]

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06. [SPOILERS for Avengers]

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09. [WARNING for depression/suicide]

[Wilby Wonderful (2004)]

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[True Blood]

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11. [WARNING for rape]

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12. [WARNING for suicide/self-harm]

[Alex Gaskarth/All Time Low]

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14. [WARNING for abuse/bullying]

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This. All the self-harm I engaged in in my teenage years was purposely invisible because I was so tired of being told I had it easy and had no problems worth complaining about (my depressed and emotionally abusive dad and his hoarding tendencies didn't count because no one saw it, and no one saw it because I didn't have friends to turn to). I spent a couple of years feeling suicidal and cutting myself and sticking myself with pins then covering it up because I didn't think I was ~worthy of feeling that bad.

It's shitty to think that you're the arbiter of what real bullying or real conflict looks like, OP. It's different for everyone.

Aw. It's sucky we have this in common, anon. *shares tea*

AYRT

True. :( *offers cookies*

I've had that problem...except apparently it might've been in reverse/backwards?

Certain aspects of my childhood were not that great, but I always thought of them as fairly minor and thus not worth my cutting, borderline suicide attempt, and some other issues I had. I eventually got to the point where I accepted that "I don't need to be guilty about having these feelings because my childhood wasn't 'that' bad" and I'm feeling far more open with my problems and can talk about them without being ashamed and without feeling the need to constantly explain or justify myself...

...and then I'm starting to read some stuff related to childhood traumas and their effects on adult livelihoods, and yeah, apparently my childhood maybe was that bad and I just spent most of my life with a really screwed up perception of what constitutes a 'healthy' childhood. o.O

But I am at least familiar with the feeling of not feeling "worthy" of your problems, so to you and the anon you replied to, I am so sorry you had to go through that. *offers hugs*

AYRT

Yeah, that actually sounds pretty much like me. Finally getting myself into therapy a couple of years ago was the first time I really talked about some of the things I took as "normal" when I was growing up, and laying them out made me realize that my normal was never really normal.

*hugs*

I'm sorry you had to go through that, too.

this is exactly the way it happened for me too :( *hugs*

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TW: self-harm

Ayrt

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