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fandomsecrets2012-09-14 06:55 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-09-14 06:55 pm
[ SECRET POST #2082 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2082 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Fate/Zero]
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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
05. [SPOILERS for Journey Into Mystery/Everything Burns]
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06. [SPOILERS for Avengers]
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07. [SPOILERS for Sweeney Todd]
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08. [SPOILERS]
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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
09. [WARNING for depression/suicide]
[Wilby Wonderful (2004)]
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10. [WARNING for abuse]
[True Blood]
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11. [WARNING for rape]
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12. [WARNING for suicide/self-harm]
[Alex Gaskarth/All Time Low]
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13. [WARNING for abuse]
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14. [WARNING for abuse/bullying]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #297.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ],.
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: TW: self-harm
Certain aspects of my childhood were not that great, but I always thought of them as fairly minor and thus not worth my cutting, borderline suicide attempt, and some other issues I had. I eventually got to the point where I accepted that "I don't need to be guilty about having these feelings because my childhood wasn't 'that' bad" and I'm feeling far more open with my problems and can talk about them without being ashamed and without feeling the need to constantly explain or justify myself...
...and then I'm starting to read some stuff related to childhood traumas and their effects on adult livelihoods, and yeah, apparently my childhood maybe was that bad and I just spent most of my life with a really screwed up perception of what constitutes a 'healthy' childhood. o.O
But I am at least familiar with the feeling of not feeling "worthy" of your problems, so to you and the anon you replied to, I am so sorry you had to go through that. *offers hugs*
Re: TW: self-harm
(Anonymous) 2012-09-15 12:28 pm (UTC)(link)Yeah, that actually sounds pretty much like me. Finally getting myself into therapy a couple of years ago was the first time I really talked about some of the things I took as "normal" when I was growing up, and laying them out made me realize that my normal was never really normal.
*hugs*
I'm sorry you had to go through that, too.
Re: TW: self-harm