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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-16 03:23 pm

[ SECRET POST #2084 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2084 ⌋

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Re: Am I right or wrong? (TW: Abuse)

(Anonymous) 2012-09-17 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
So what my roommate did in her similar situation. I got to listen to this from my room a few years back.

Posted with permission.

She sat her mother down and told her mother point blank that she will NEVER forgive her father. When her mother tried to do the maybe, eventually game. My roommate would just say no. No explanations, just no. Her mother persisted with a variation of 'you should forgive him he's your father', my roommate reminded her mother of some of the things her father did to the both of them. Then restated she wouldn't forgive her father. Also that she did not want to talk about her father ever, and for her mother to please stop pressuring her to forgive him. That this need of her mother to 'make things right' was making her resent her and not want to see her.

Her mother does not bring up her father, or how my roommate should forgive him any more. Sometimes being honest and blunt is the only way to hammer it home.

Re: Am I right or wrong? (TW: Abuse)

[personal profile] 30_rock_office 2012-09-17 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you for responding. I will keep this in mind and mull over what I want to say.