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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-16 03:23 pm

[ SECRET POST #2084 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2084 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-09-17 06:14 am (UTC)(link)
Personally, "emotional infidelity" doesn't really bother me so long as the lines of communication are kept open. But cheating is pretty much the grossest thing you can do. Like, if my partner thought they were in love with someone else, but they told me up front about it and didn't pursue that person without my consent, that'd be okay. People can love more than one person at a time, and its really not a big deal so long as you respect your partner. Decent people make the choice to either stay faithful, or to break up and go after that new person.

But, acting on desires? That is a HUGE breach of trust, a huge betrayal. For most people, your romantic partner becomes part of your family. You trust them with your most intimate moments and your deepest secrets and thoughts. When I commit to a relationship, I expect my partner to be just as committed. You can't control who you find attractive or who you fall in love with, but you can damn sure control who you go out with and kiss and fuck. Cheating is basically saying to your partner "I know you're really invested in me and you might be trying to build a life with me, but your emotions and health mean less to me than my sex drive." Its really violating.