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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-17 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #2085 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2085 ⌋

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TRANSCRIPT

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-09-17 10:57 pm (UTC)(link)
I met a guy through fandom. We started talking, found out we shared a lot of interests, and became friends. Eventually, he asked me out. I was estatic.
i suffer from depression, and I also have issues with low self-esteem.
My boyfriend also sufferes from depression, but his condition has improved since we began dating and his therapist says I'm good for him.
For the first few months of our relationship we didn't have any problems.

However, I eventually realized that depression wasn't his only problem. He's, for lack of a better word, an attention seeker. he's very different around his online friends, makes posts on tumblr that just beg for likes, lets others know about important things in his life before he tells me, etc. I've told him how insecure and worthless his behavior makes me feel, and have had bouts of depression over this, but he just says that it's "my depression talking" or something similar. He denies he has a problem.
I don't think he realizes how much it's hurting me and how easily I could leave him. I just wish he would listen to me. I do love him, but I'm unhappy being with the man who is the star of the show, while I'm just a guest appearance, at most.

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(Anonymous) 2012-09-17 11:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you for the transcript. That one seemed impossible.

To OP: Sounds like he's not going to change, so you have to decide if this is a deal breaker or something you can live with long term.

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(Anonymous) 2012-09-17 11:12 pm (UTC)(link)
makes posts on tumblr that just beg for likes

This is hilarious. I guess he is too cool for Facebook, we are talking about one cool dude here.
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[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2012-09-18 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
You taking over for Agentc then?

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[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-09-18 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
Nope. I did this a couple of times before AC took over with their swift competence.

I just felt like I should keep up the good fight while AC is away having an actual life.
Edited (me type pretty one day) 2012-09-18 00:25 (UTC)
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[personal profile] agentcthulhu 2012-09-21 02:42 am (UTC)(link)
I started doing transcriptions when anonymouslyyours went away so... it's more like she's taking her job back while I am occupied with secret agently duties life.
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[personal profile] velvet_mace 2012-09-18 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
I'll say it again. You are a godsend. There is no way I could read this.
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[personal profile] nynaeve_sedai 2012-09-18 03:14 am (UTC)(link)
Bless you with the blessings of F!S.