[ SECRET POST #2085 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2085 ⌋

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Comments

[nynaeve_sedai]

I live with major depression. I also take responsibility for my actions. I'm married with a child and while yes, it sucks to be stuck with things like persistent suicidal ideation and the urge to self-harm, I have gone through years of major therapy to learn to cope and to even *live* rather than merely survive.

When I'm snarky to my husband because I'm having a bad day, I apologize. If I find myself getting overly persnickety with my son, I put in a movie or send him off to a friend's house, or get the whole family out so that the pressure isn't on me. I make choices based on being self-aware.

In other words, your bf shouldn't be invalidating your feelings. You don't exist to make him better or happier or whatever. That's not your job. It's his job to pursue the means by which to become healthy and/or cope in a healthy way. You can support him in that, but you too need to make sure you're taking care of yourself.

I think I'm rambling. I just think it's not a healthy relationship and that depression isn't an excuse for people to treat other people like crap.