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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-17 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #2085 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2085 ⌋

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Re: Is ERP cheating?

[personal profile] tabaqui 2012-09-18 05:02 am (UTC)(link)
It's totally a 'some say yes, some say no' thing. Some people would go ballistic, some would be kinda upset but willing to listen, some wouldn't care.

Me, i don't care, my SO doesn't care, but a cousin-in-law taped paper over the bikini models in her husband's car magazines.

So everybody is different. I'd say go with the 'what do you think about....?' approach, and when/if you get ready to talk about what you, specifically are doing, don't get defensive, and don't let him get shouty. Also, talking about how it's given you more self confidence and you feel more sexy/adventurous with him now, because you sort of...figured things out online first might make him happy. Who knows!

Good luck.