Case (
case) wrote in
fandomsecrets2012-09-18 06:42 pm
[ SECRET POST #2086 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2086 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
01.

__________________________________________________
02.

__________________________________________________
03.

__________________________________________________
04.

__________________________________________________
05.

__________________________________________________
06.

__________________________________________________
07.

__________________________________________________
08.

__________________________________________________
09.

__________________________________________________
10.

__________________________________________________
11.

__________________________________________________
12.

__________________________________________________
13.

__________________________________________________
14.

__________________________________________________
15.

__________________________________________________
16.

__________________________________________________
Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 060 secrets from Secret Submission Post #298.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

no subject
(Anonymous) 2012-09-19 07:06 pm (UTC)(link)If you have a problem and you're suffering, don't you think those who care for you, those who are close to you suffer with you in a way? No, they're of course not having the exact same problem you have and they're not feeling that exact same problem in the exact magnitude, but it affects them emotionally in other ways, believe me.
And this whole "How dare you mention that you have some problems too, they're not valid because they're not severe enough and not a mental illness or social disadvantage, don't you dare say that you're hurting because I'm hurting" attitude is actually really hurtful. And it makes it hard to not get angry and to stay friends, but you end up doing it anyway, because hey, they have problems, so maybe it's alright for them to accept your help and then be angry at you and treat you like shit for having emotions yourself. And you know what? If you have someone who is like that for you and who sticks around no matter how you treat them, you're really fucking lucky and even if you have issues, don't think you're the only one in this world feeling like shit.