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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-26 06:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #2094 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2094 ⌋

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Re: What are the best and worst ways you've been 'friend dumped' F!S?

(Anonymous) 2012-09-26 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Worst--really stupid argument from both of us that got REALLY bad. I begged her for forgiveness, she refused.

Months later she contacts me again because she wants to RP with me. We manage to sort of patch things up and act like friends again.

Had another argument, this time even stupider on both sides. She blocks me again, I know not to even bother begging for forgiveness this time because once she does her "NEVER TALKING TO YOU AGAIN EVER" thing she'll be quiet for months while ranting about how you're a horrible person (but she ~*~doesn't hold grudges.~*~)

Anyway, contacts me months later and GUESS WHAT she wants to play with me in RP again. This time much more reluctant but want to be nice so I agree to it. She doesn't even bother trying to be friends with me this time--with the rest of the crew she'll be her usual outgoing, friendly self, but when I contact her to ask questions I get short, brisk answers made up of as few words as possible. This is bad because we're playing super-close siblings and we kind of need to be able to communicate. Unsurprisingly she eventually drops and I haven't spoken to her since, although last I heard a few years ago she was still occasionally going into rants about how I'm a horrible person on social media. Whatever.

I'm not sure if I have a "best", all of the "ex" friends I have are just ones I moved away from and eventually stopped talking to. I tend to be a clingy person so when I lose friends it's either because of that or huge dramatic arguments like the above. (And yes, I know this is partially my fault and I'm making an effort to get better at this.)
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Re: What are the best and worst ways you've been 'friend dumped' F!S?

[personal profile] ecoerrante 2012-09-27 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
Ah, yeah I tend to be the same way actually. It always sucks when things blow out like that - and even more so since it happened more than once it seems.