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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-27 06:43 pm

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[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-09-28 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
Lemme know if you come across atheist guys who aren't homophobic and misogynistic. I'd like some confirmation they actually exist in real life.

*sigh*
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[personal profile] truxillogical 2012-09-28 04:11 am (UTC)(link)
I...I know some agnostic ones? Does that count?

(Anonymous) 2012-09-28 01:44 pm (UTC)(link)
This is so outrageous to me I can't tell if you're joking or not. I know several atheist men who are not homophobic and misogynistic, and are in fact decent people, and I even plan on marrying one next year.

I feel like I must be missing a joke here.

(Anonymous) 2012-09-28 06:31 pm (UTC)(link)
iirc anonymouslyyrs is from rural bible belt so not many atheists there

so she never met a not homophobic and not misogynistic atheist man

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-09-28 07:01 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not really joking. I'd like to believe they are out there I'm just stating I've never met them.

I've actually met about six atheist men in real life, all of whom were utter misogynists and two of them I can confirm where self-admittedly homophobic, and another one who claimed not to be homophobic but did and said homophobic things. And I don't believe I'm the only one who has had these experiences. I've seen quite a bit of discussion about sexism and misogyny in the atheist community online.

I'd like to clarify that I myself am an atheist.

Glad for the confirmation and congratulations!
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[personal profile] ill_omened 2012-09-28 07:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Atheist men are disproportionately white, middleclass, and educated. At least compared to the norm.

Guess what group this has tremendous overlap with (it's the group which has the lowest rate of misogyny and homophobia - slightly more nuanced if we introduce white middleclass women who ironically enough by many metrics are less homophobic yet more misogynistic but I'll let the generalisation stand)

Perhaps the mistake you're mistaking is that a lot, and I mean an awful lot, of people are homophobic and misogynistic?

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-09-28 08:52 pm (UTC)(link)
What mistake do you think I'm making? I'm not claiming all atheist men are homophobic and misogynistic. Just that I've never met any who weren't so it isn't even uncommon. All I really did was reiterate the anon's point that atheism isn't some magical cure for homophobia and misogyny.