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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-28 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2096 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2096 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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04. http://i.imgur.com/KENos.png
[True Blood; sort of porny, illustrated ... choking and spanking or something?]


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[Koi Kaze; Freefall]


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[Suits]


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[A Song of Ice and Fire]


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11. [SPOILERS for Doctor Who]



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12. [SPOILERS for A Song of Ice and Fire]



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13. [SPOILERS for the Stand]



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14. [SPOILERS for Teen Wolf]



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15. [SPOILERS for Shin Megami Tensei IV]



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16. [WARNING for self-harm]

[bogglelovesyou@tumblr]


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17. [WARNING for attempted suicide and depression]

[The Walking Dead]


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18. [WARNING for suicide]















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #299.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: What are we? (Describing the self) (heh, what a subject line)

(Anonymous) 2012-09-28 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I studied this in social psych in college. It was to point out the difference between individualistic cultures and collectivist cultures.

If you asked someone in an individualistic culture such as the USA to describe themselves, they would be more likely to say things like: I'm an architect, I have a dog named Spot, I drive a Lexus, I have a quirk that's unique to me-- they would tell you the things that differentiate them from everyone else.

If you asked someone in a collectivist culture such as Japan to describe themselves, they would be more likely to say things like: I'm Japanese, I'm a graduate of X university, I'm an employee of Y organization, I belong to a group who does hobby X-- they would tell you which groups they fall into and which social circles they're a part of.

Neither is better or worse, only different.

Re: What are we? (Describing the self) (heh, what a subject line)

(Anonymous) 2012-09-29 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
I really like this comment.

I myself, being a part of a society deeply influenced in some parts by American values, but which at the same time is a collectivist culture, tend to use both kinds of statements. "I do this for a living" and at the same time "I work for X organization" and "I belong to Y fandom". I really hadn't thought about it in these terms before, and as you said, neither are good or bad.
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Re: What are we? (Describing the self) (heh, what a subject line)

[personal profile] al28894 2012-09-29 02:44 am (UTC)(link)
Seconding. I like what you say.