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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-29 03:17 pm

[ SECRET POST #2097 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2097 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-09-29 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
[i]I respect his right to privacy, whether anyone believes that or not.[/i]

Except... you kind of don't. If you really respected his privacy, you would've asked him for his phone number and/or adress, and backed away if he had said no.

I was stalked a couple of years ago. My stalker somehow managed to dig out the same info that you did - my number and adress. They never drove by my home - not that I know of, anyway - but they did bomb me with text messages and phone calls every week. And I'm pretty sure they didn't want me to be scared shitless of them, either. They wanted a [i]connection[/i].

(Anonymous) 2012-09-29 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Exactly respecting someone's privacy does not equal seeking out and retaining private information. You're delusional. I just hope that you don't hurt him or his family.

Get help.

(Anonymous) 2012-09-30 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
They had to pay for the guy's address. Any personal information that you have to pay to get, even if it was only $2, is information that you probably shouldn't have.

(Anonymous) 2012-09-30 06:17 am (UTC)(link)
I don't disagree with you, and I didn't feel right about it when I did it. But it's not something I can unknow once I've gotten it, even if I threw it out. I've got a good memory. But as I keep repeating, I've only ever driven by his place one time, and I haven't done it again since. Nor am I going to in the future.

(Anonymous) 2012-09-30 06:06 am (UTC)(link)
but they did bomb me with text messages and phone calls every week.

Something I have NEVER done. So while I know what I've done isn't exactly right, please don't lump me in with someone who spams you with texts and calls. I wouldn't do that. Ever.

(Anonymous) 2012-09-30 11:36 am (UTC)(link)
Something I have NEVER done. So while I know what I've done isn't exactly right, please don't lump me in with someone who spams you with texts and calls. I wouldn't do that. Ever.

I wasn't lumping you in the the same category. What I'm saying is that your behaviour rings a bell. You might not be sending him creepy text messages at night, but the respect for his privacy went out of the window the second you got a hold of his adress and phone number. Just because the guy is blissfully ignorant of all of this doesn't mean that what you're doing is harmless.

Also, thank you for telling me that I spend 6 months of my life terrified to pick up my phone because I was scared of receiving "spam".