[ SECRET POST #2099 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2099 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

It does get weird when lesbians are shown with more men than women though. And when that happens with a lot of lesbian characters.

With her and with Willow, if a girl is significantly into guys too, what's so wrong about saying the B word?

[mutantjules.livejournal.com]

Well, you're definitely not wrong about that

though yeah bro. Bi girl here. Still, I saw that episode and I was fucking delighted. ("OH MY GOD SOMEONE ON TV IS ACTUALLY TALKING ABOUT SEXUALITY IN A NON-MONO WAY, NOT JUST LIKE 'OH I'M GONNA MAKE OUT WITH SOME GIRLS RIGHT AROUND SWEEPS WEEK HOW ABOUT THAT' BUT JUST A STATEMENT AND SHE'S ONLY SAYING IT NOT JUST ABOUT HERSELF BUT TO MAKE A POINT ABOUT JOHN TOO AND IT'S ON A SHOW THAT I LIKE HOLY SHIT--!!!!") Then I hit the internet and was greeted by a storm of anger =/

yeah, Willow too. Hilariously, I'm only just watching Buffy properly-all-the-way-through for the first time now, and I'm still in season 4 when she's with Oz, and I'm....not sure how I'll feel when she gets with Tara and (from what I remember) automatically starts calling herself gay. Even though she definitely had both sexual attraction and romantic attraction for more than one dude before. But at the same time a label is something you put on yourself that you feel most accurately represents how you feel and I'm not here to invalidate another person's whatever and and I have Complicated Feelings about lots of things!

(..man, just getting involved in this thread may come back to bite me)

[(Anonymous)]

On the one hand, the way Willow is shown is something that happens with real life lesbians. On the other, I'm pretty sure that the writers didn't have their minds made up about who the gay character was going to be, just that they'd have one, and that leads me to just view her characterization as sloppy and ill handled on that front. If they wrote her to identify as bi, the weirdness wouldn't be there.

I'd like more prominent lesbians to be monosexual, I was starving for that in my teen years and always felt jerked around when a self proclaimed lesbian got it on with a guy.

[mutantjules.livejournal.com]

That's true too! Otherwise "gold-star lesbians" wouldn't even be a thing, would it, cause that would be the way it always happened.

hah, and here's me where it's been the opposite - characters lead het lives until they suddenly don't and I'm like "OH SNAP, A CHARACTER LIKE ME" and then they always bypass what seems to be the obvious and happily proclaim "I'm gay!" and I'm like "....? What, are you afraid to say it? JUST SAY IT!!! IT'S A THING, LOOK IT UP! (http://lmgtfy.com/?q=bisexuality)" (I guess the thing is that I see this example so much less, but yeah, a lesbian-identifying lady bangin' dudes and still saying "I'm gay, y'all" can still make me feel like everyone wants to OMG AVOID using my label. Doesn't mean it's not a thing that ever happens, but....yeah)