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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-03 05:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2101 ]


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Re: Someone sharing intimate details of another person's life

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-10-03 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
You need to let her know that what she's doing is absolutely out of bounds, at least attempt to express why what she's doing is harmful and wrong, and that you don't want to hear anything else in this vein. You should also make a mental note that any personal information you share with her will also most likely receive the same consideration she gave Charlie.

If at all possible you should absolutely let him know what is going on.

I was in a similar situation and, like you, asked for advice on this comm and ultimately got in contact with the woman whose personal life was being talked about and I can say it was the right decision. Charlie has a right to know what is going on so he can protect himself or at least make informed choices about what he chooses to share with Barbie.