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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-07 03:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2105 ]


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(Anonymous) 2012-10-07 08:18 pm (UTC)(link)
For kink memes, I feel like cunnilingus is way more prevalent than fellatio in m/f fills. I don't think I've ever seen a fandom where this wasn't the case.

(Anonymous) 2012-10-07 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Really? Huh. My experience is the opposite.

OP

(Anonymous) 2012-10-07 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
my experience is the exact opposite, so... count yourself lucky, I guess? it's not so much about fellatio vs cunn, it's more that... in some fandoms, fellatio outnumber cunnilingus by such an extreme degree, and in those particular fandoms, there's a weirdly high level of misogyny in the not-kink population.

there have been enough ... coincidence between the two that I've pretty much stopped to check the kink meme first.
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Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2012-10-08 06:07 am (UTC)(link)
as I mentioned lower down, I, unfairly, conflated the women not receiving oral as often as men with women not being equally treated/written as fully enjoying sex or if their enjoyment was important. for me, there are too many fandoms where the two almost always go hand-in-hand, as opposed to it just being a kink preference. I oversimplified my thought, and it was poorly worded.