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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-07 03:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2105 ]


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Re: havin' a real bad case of gay panic this weekend

(Anonymous) 2012-10-07 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, so many possibilities. This is why sexuality is so strange and hard to pin down. Not in a bad way, mind you. Just strange.

Speaking from experience, it is totally possible to be romantically bisexual (or insert other orientation here) but physically attracted to only one sex or another. Personally, I have been in relationships with both guys and girls, and I have had crushes/whatever on both guys and girls. However, my (female) fiance notwithstanding, I am far more sexually attracted to guys, generally speaking. I am very happy in my sex life right now, but she's the exception, not the norm.

So, is it possible that you might like to date guys but not have sex with them? Sure. Is it also possible that it's just not working out with this particular guy? Sure. I find it helps me if I think about individual relationships rather than trying to label myself into a neat box. Gay/bi/straight don't always work for everyone.