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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-07 03:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2105 ]


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Re: In love with a stranger

(Anonymous) 2012-10-08 02:42 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't know if you'll see this reply, it's been a while since this was posted, but I think I know what that feels like. I might be in a somewhat similar situation. For me I just have to repeatedly evaluate how things are on a very regular basis. Ask myself whether it's worth it. Figure out how far exactly it would take for things to not be worth it. Draw lines, or try as hard as I can to define how much I can let myself be ok with this, and when I'll need to break it off.

I try not to talk about what my own standards are, it's mostly very personal, and for each person what their lines are or how far they're willing to go or continue on in a situation like that - where they like someone else but the chances of actually meeting a person are next to nothing - that's something they have to answer for themselves.

What I can say, though, is that there's someone I like. Being able to talk with them makes me happy. Not being able to meet them isn't something I like and sometimes I get a bit sad about it. But weighing everything, if I ask myself whether or not it's worth it to keep talking and building and telling them that I like them, the answer (for me, for now) is still unquestionably 'yes'.

I know it probably won't be forever. But I know what it'd take for it to end, and I know if it comes to that, I'll confront that as best as I can. Even so, while the good times might not last forever, I'll enjoy them for as long as they're here.