case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-08 06:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #2106 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2106 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.


__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________



03.


__________________________________________________



04.


__________________________________________________



05.


__________________________________________________



06.


__________________________________________________



07.


__________________________________________________



08.


__________________________________________________



09.


__________________________________________________



10.


__________________________________________________



11.


__________________________________________________



12.


__________________________________________________



13.


__________________________________________________



14.


__________________________________________________



15.


__________________________________________________



16.


__________________________________________________



17.


__________________________________________________



18.


__________________________________________________



19.


__________________________________________________



20.


__________________________________________________














Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 085 secrets from Secret Submission Post #301.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - way too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - secret posted as text ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(frozen comment)

(Anonymous) 2012-10-08 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
There are RL professionals out there to help with these sorts of things. Sorry, but if you want support and diagnosis from the internet then you're digging in the wrong place.

(frozen comment)

(Anonymous) 2012-10-08 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
but why would you need a professional to help you sort out your own sexual identity? I mean, I know it happens, but most people I know who aren't straight figured that out without professionals and some did use the internet.

or did I read something wrong hm

(frozen comment)

(Anonymous) 2012-10-09 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT

Well, professionals are good at classifying and clarifying things. If you want a label for "dates boys but is only sexually attracted to ladies dressed as santa," you're going to have to consult somebody, because the terms don't come out of nowhere. Professionals are experts in what they do, or should be--they're more reliable sources of information than random people on the internet, even for personal issues.

(frozen comment)

(Anonymous) 2012-10-08 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Lotta people out their figure out their own sexuality without the help of "professionals".
becka: (Default)

(frozen comment)

[personal profile] becka 2012-10-09 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
First off, no one said anything about "diagnosis" because your sexuality is not a medical condition (do you think people get diagnosed gay??). Second, support from a peer group is NOT the same thing as support from a therapist, and plenty of people need both. Especially when a lot of therapists still don't know anything about asexuality.