fandomsecrets | [ SECRET POST #2107 ]

⌈ Secret Post #2107 ⌋

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[gravity falls]

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[Kuroko no Basket]

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[World of Warcraft]

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[Batman: Arkham City]

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[Blake's 7]

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[Sherlock (2002)]

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[Beelzebub]

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[Kuroko no Basuke]

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[Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun]

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[Spec Ops: The Line]

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[Supernatural]

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[Star Trek: Deep Space Nine]

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[Legend of Korra]

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[Community]

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[The Good Guy]

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[Journey Into Mystery 2011]

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[Rune Factory 3]

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[Journey]

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[South Park]

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As others have said, being careful who you date can help you avoid a lot of problems. If there's someone in your friendship group who you like, its actually really good to keep an eye on how they treat other people, and how others respond to them. During this time when you're not dating but are interested in someone, you can learn a lot about their personality by observing them. (this sounds a bit creepy but I mean in a subtle, non-stalkerish way!) Because they may not be aware you're interested, they're not going to be on their best behaviour or trying to impress you.

This advince kinda seems like a no-brainer, but I've seen a lot of people jump right into dating someone before getting to know them, and after a months or so personality traits they didn't like started coming out.

As far as your other worries, I think when you find someone you really click with, the trust thing might come naturally rather than be a concious deicision. Also, sometimes you just have to take risks and throw yourself into these things if you think you're overly cautious, and if things do go to shit, you can learn something about other people and about yourself.
Sorry if this seems really contradictory or clichéd.

[ SECRET POST #2107 ]

Re: relationship stuff, TMI for whining