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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-13 03:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #2111 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2111 ⌋

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[personal profile] citrinesunset 2012-10-14 05:42 am (UTC)(link)
Some BDSM fics are very unrealistic compared to what BDSM is in real life. But I don't think that makes all of them invalid, necessarily. For a lot of people, BDSM can be a way of consensually exploring fantasies. Like, I say I have a punishment kink, but that doesn't mean I want to be "really" punished against my will. I like the idea of playing it out with a partner. But a lot of fics approach BDSM more from a fantasy perspective.

It can be annoying/creepy when people write things like abuse and portray it in a romantic way. But on the other hand, I can see how someone might enjoy the fantasy of being kidnapped and abused without thinking that that's okay in real life. If they translate that kink into their real life relationships, it will ideally involve a lot of trust and consent, and will probably be milder and safer.