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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-14 03:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2112 ]


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Re: I feel like I'll never get lucky in love...

(Anonymous) 2012-10-15 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
Aw, anon, I'm sorry to hear that. A friend of mine recently went through something similar with a guy she worked with. He kept telling his friends that he preferred for a girl to be the one to initiate things since he has never really dated (and then one of our friends reported that info back to my friend, hehe), but my friend got fed up doing all the work. I can totally understand. I'd want a guy to make the first move sometimes. He doesn't always have to, but when I'm doing all the work I get the feeling he's not interested. A relationship does take a lot of work, but both people need to work on it.

But back to you, I hope you have better luck in the relationships department. You just haven't met the right person. I think you should approach dating with a more casual mind. Just date a few people, get a feel of what it's like to go on a date. That way you don't worry about whether or not a person really likes you or not, and if you don't get a call back from them you don't feel so bummed out about it. And then, maybe you will finally meet the one who matters, the "special" person who changes your life. Everyone isn't meant to find their "life partner" in the first person they date (even though it happened to my older sister).
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Re: I feel like I'll never get lucky in love...

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2012-10-15 02:14 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I dont' think it's so much if the girl or guy is the one that opens the door... but once you step through into relationshipland, BOTH people need to work at it. No matter who starts it.