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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-16 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2114 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2114 ⌋

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Re: Punishing kids (trigger warning)

[personal profile] khronos_keeper 2012-10-16 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry you were so shocked by it. I worked in Korea for a year, and corporal punishments for students being bad or not doing their work was a normal thing. It shocked me too, at first, but since nobody seemed all that scarred by it, I didn't say anything.
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Re: Punishing kids (trigger warning)

[personal profile] tyger66 2012-10-17 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, since we are raised with the message that being physically harmed is WRONGWRONGWRONG, especially with today's verrry loose definition of "child abuse", seeing it in action in other cultures is jarring.

However, their kids aren't all shut-ins with PTSD or anything, so I'm gonna guess that, at least for them, it's just a part of life. Do bad things/Disobey authority figures -> get punished.
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Re: Punishing kids (trigger warning)

[personal profile] tyger66 2012-10-17 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
BTW, I was spanked (FREQUENTLY) as a kid, and while I WOULD characterize my father as "abusive", it had NOTHING to do with the way he punished me. (His abuse has always been purely emotional/verbal; he's never laid a hand on me other than when I legitimately was in need of disciplinary action.)

Re: Punishing kids (trigger warning)

[personal profile] khronos_keeper 2012-10-17 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
Also was spanked as a kid, and I don't categorize that as abusive either. It's honestly a cultural thing, I think. Just as much as Korean kids going through torture-lite techniques for punishment.