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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-17 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2115 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2115 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Elementary]


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[To Aru Majutsu no Index]


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[Ghostbusters 2]


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[One Piece]


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[Teen Wolf]


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[Big Time Rush]


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[Sherlock]


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[Pitch Perfect]


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[Blue Exorcist & Supernatural]


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[Homestuck]


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[Rose Byrne]


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[khaos komix]


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[Once Upon a Time]


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[The White Buffalo]


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[Teen Wolf]


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[Dawn of the Dead]


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[CSI: Miami]


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Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 040 secrets from Secret Submission Post #302.
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Re: Dating advice

(Anonymous) 2012-10-18 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
Like the anon above me said, ask them. If you're already on a date, it's unlikely they'd be weirded out to find out you want to hold hands/cuddle/whatever, and it avoids the awkward "do I signal? Are they getting it? What should I do?" part.

I haven't been on a date as such in a while, but I've been a couple of parties lately where I was hitting it off with someone there, and at a lull in the conversation just went "I kind of want to kiss you now, is that okay?" and in both cases it worked, and wasn't at all awkward. So I recommend the direct approach.

So in your particular case, in the car I would say "is it cool if I hug you now?" and if yes, voila! If the answer is no, he'd probably give at least some explanation, and you can find out what he is and isn't comfortable with.