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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-20 04:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #2118 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2118 ⌋

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Re: another of my (white) friends has started dating an asian

[personal profile] sockpants 2012-10-20 10:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I would LOVE to introduce these feminist blogs to my step-grandmother. Halmuhnee is Korean. My grandfather is white. They met about twenty years ago when my grandfather went on a business trip to South Korea. Halmuhnee was working at the hotel he stayed at. According to her, my grandfather was so completely baffled at everything (he could speak a bit of the language but not read it) and she felt sorry for him, so she started talking to him. They hit it off and for the next two weeks he was there, my grandfather and Halmuhnee would go out and do things, and she started teaching him more Korean.

When he left, they stayed in contact for another year through letters, and then he went back to Korea for another business trip. This time, though, Halmuhnee came back with him.

Anyone who sees them together and thinks "white dude married to Asian lady = he likes that she's submissive" is a fucking moron. They're a funny couple- they talk smack about each other all the time, they tease each other, and they divide everything up pretty equally.

/cool story brosephine, I just think that feminist blog's mindset is stupid as shit. Have they ever actually met any white/Asian interracial couples? Or any other interracial couples, for that matter?

Re: another of my (white) friends has started dating an asian

(Anonymous) 2012-10-20 11:06 pm (UTC)(link)
omg, that's so cute :)

I love stories like that

Re: another of my (white) friends has started dating an asian

(Anonymous) 2012-10-20 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
You're grandparents sound awesome! I love stories about couples who got together later in life - they usually seem to have such fun relationships.

I know several white man/Asian woman couples my age (30s) and all cases, the woman is not remotely submissive and is usually pretty career-driven and not at all interested in being a housewife (even if they have kids). Of course, I am a scientist and most of my friends are scientists and academics, so that skews the results a bit.
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Re: another of my (white) friends has started dating an asian

[personal profile] silverau 2012-10-21 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
Aww that is so cute!

Re: another of my (white) friends has started dating an asian

(Anonymous) 2012-10-21 03:45 am (UTC)(link)
All of this AND your grandma's a fangirl? I OFFICIALLY LOVE YOUR GRANDPARENTS.