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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-20 04:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #2118 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2118 ⌋

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Re: another of my (white) friends has started dating an asian

(Anonymous) 2012-10-20 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, speaking as a white chick whose dating an asian chick...At least for us [and most of the interracial couples of the same makeup I've seen, and in general really] it's usually as much about the fact that we're both attracted to each other, and had enough chemistry and common ground that we gave a relationship a go. Nothing more, nothing less.

I'm not saying there aren't couples that decide to date for other reasons, or that there aren't cultural aspects that may be in play for some, or even most, of the couples [particularly the ones you know] but...really. The reasons are going to vary with every couple, just like it would with any other combination in relationships.