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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-22 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #2120 ]


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Re: You know what sucks?

(Anonymous) 2012-10-23 03:00 am (UTC)(link)
You're kidding, right? Sex IS a pretty damn crucial part of life. It's our instinct, our nature. Just because there's a dumbass law that a few crazy people will enforce doesn't mean you should shut down your sex life.

The law is there for a reason but it's so general that it should be refined. And in the case of someone having sex with a consenting partner a few months younger than them, they should NOT be placed on a sex offenders list for the rest of their life. Jaywalking may be illegal for a reason but it would be fucking nuts to get locked up for life for it, wouldn't it?

DA

(Anonymous) 2012-10-23 04:26 am (UTC)(link)
I won't argue with you that the law should be refined, but unfortunately right now, as the law stands, the two of you gettin' funky is illegal. All relationships require a certain degree of compromise, concessions, sacrifice, etc. and I guess you've discovered what your's is. At least it's a temporary one, you won't have to wait long before you're old enough.

Alternatively, you could just, you know, have sex and not get caught. It's really not hard. And if you do get caught, the chances of him being prosecuted are still very slim. Because who fucking cares? Not most people, that's who.

So yeah, either suck it up for a year or two or get busy and keep your mouth shut about it. Those are not bad choices, so there's really no sense in whining about it.

Re: DA

(Anonymous) 2012-10-23 06:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not that anon who posted the thread, so I'm not wah-wah-ing about my own situation here. I'm way past the legality issue, and I'm still capable of seeing that it's an unfair situation.

I think it's stupid to take the stance of "stop whining about it" when it's a stupidly written law with a ridiculous outcome for some people who get caught. There are some places that overlook the case of two teens close together in age, and that's the route everywhere should go.

It's not just whining. Some people get massively fucked over for the rest of their lives because of this. But it's nice to know it's such a pointless issue to people like you and that those people should stop complaining.
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Re: DA

[personal profile] kryptoncat 2012-10-23 10:21 pm (UTC)(link)
"have sex and not get caught"

That might not be so easy if she gets pregnant, in the case the preventative measures she uses fail.

OP, Is it legal for you to buy birth control pills at your age? Would they sell Plan B to a sixteen year old in California? Would you be willing and able to have an abortion? That's something you should think about before having sex with your bf. Just don't take the situation lightly!

Safer option: Playing around in secret, but no parts touching each other.

Remember, you won't be sixteen forever. You will be able to make decisions for yourself one day!

Re: You know what sucks?

(Anonymous) 2012-10-23 05:09 am (UTC)(link)
Sex IS a pretty damn crucial part of life

You won't die without it. A lot of people don't even want it. To me, that means not fucking crucial.

I don't give a shit who you bang, anon, but don't act like it's a great injustice that you aren't allowed to swap fluids and get STDs like the rest of us until you're both legal adults.

Re: You know what sucks?

(Anonymous) 2012-10-23 05:48 am (UTC)(link)
A lot of people don't even want it.

Aces =/= a lot of people js.

Re: You know what sucks?

(Anonymous) 2012-10-23 04:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Asexuals are only part of that though? You can not want sex for more reasons than being asexual...

Re: You know what sucks?

(Anonymous) 2012-10-23 06:41 pm (UTC)(link)
And yet sex is still the way to propagate our species... so yeah, it IS crucial to life. JFS just cause some people don't want it (which is fine) doesn't mean it's not important whatsoever.

Re: You know what sucks?

(Anonymous) 2012-10-23 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't think the human race is going to die out just because immature teenagers in the United States can't reproduce.

Re: You know what sucks?

(Anonymous) 2012-10-23 06:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not the anon who posted the thread, I'm 23 and I think the laws are stupid as shit. It IS an injustice if someone gets fucked over royally the rest of their lives for something so stupid. Stop trivializing that.