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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-22 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #2120 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2120 ⌋

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DA

(Anonymous) 2012-10-23 04:26 am (UTC)(link)
I won't argue with you that the law should be refined, but unfortunately right now, as the law stands, the two of you gettin' funky is illegal. All relationships require a certain degree of compromise, concessions, sacrifice, etc. and I guess you've discovered what your's is. At least it's a temporary one, you won't have to wait long before you're old enough.

Alternatively, you could just, you know, have sex and not get caught. It's really not hard. And if you do get caught, the chances of him being prosecuted are still very slim. Because who fucking cares? Not most people, that's who.

So yeah, either suck it up for a year or two or get busy and keep your mouth shut about it. Those are not bad choices, so there's really no sense in whining about it.

Re: DA

(Anonymous) 2012-10-23 06:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not that anon who posted the thread, so I'm not wah-wah-ing about my own situation here. I'm way past the legality issue, and I'm still capable of seeing that it's an unfair situation.

I think it's stupid to take the stance of "stop whining about it" when it's a stupidly written law with a ridiculous outcome for some people who get caught. There are some places that overlook the case of two teens close together in age, and that's the route everywhere should go.

It's not just whining. Some people get massively fucked over for the rest of their lives because of this. But it's nice to know it's such a pointless issue to people like you and that those people should stop complaining.
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Re: DA

[personal profile] kryptoncat 2012-10-23 10:21 pm (UTC)(link)
"have sex and not get caught"

That might not be so easy if she gets pregnant, in the case the preventative measures she uses fail.

OP, Is it legal for you to buy birth control pills at your age? Would they sell Plan B to a sixteen year old in California? Would you be willing and able to have an abortion? That's something you should think about before having sex with your bf. Just don't take the situation lightly!

Safer option: Playing around in secret, but no parts touching each other.

Remember, you won't be sixteen forever. You will be able to make decisions for yourself one day!