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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-23 06:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #2121 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2121 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Darths and Droids]


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03.
[Captain America & Iron Man]


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04.
[The Walking Dead]


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05.
[Divergent]


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06.
[SPN RPF]


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07.
[Sanctuary]


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08.
[Person of Interest]


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09.
[Last Exile]


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10.
[Hugo Weaving / Sam Neill]


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11.
[Type-Moon]


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12.
[Spec Ops: The Line]


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13.
[Quantum Leap]


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14.
[Tom Hiddleston]


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15.
[Labyrinth]


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16.
[Trent & Mariqueen Reznor, How to Destroy Angels]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 051 secrets from Secret Submission Post #303.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
elialshadowpine: ([whedon] XXX)

Re: From a virgin

[personal profile] elialshadowpine 2012-10-24 06:38 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah. I "lost" mine fairly "early" IMO but even still it was treated as "OMG you still ARE?" by some people because I was -- gasp -- 18! A friend of mine who is in her 30s and waiting for the Right Person has dealt with so much crap from people trying to set her up and pushing her to "just get rid of it" and "just get it over with". Which, it's perfectly fine for people to feel that way about themselves but it's not cool to push your preferences on other -- no matter what they are.

Re: From a virgin

(Anonymous) 2012-10-24 07:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I had "friends" in high school who were constantly telling me they'd set me up so I could shed the Virgin label. "We're gonna throw a party, get you drunk, and get you laid!"
Oh, yes, because passing out and having no idea what happened with whom, if condoms were used, or if incriminating photos were taken is soooo much better than just abstaining. I ended up waiting until I was 29, and it was fantastic. I have a friend who is 31 and contemplating her first, and I am being a better friend by listening to her concerns and giving advice and support... and not offering to get her drunk. *lol*