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fandomsecrets2012-10-24 06:33 pm
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we're not talking about those people
generalization? what's that????
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-25 12:47 am (UTC)(link)no subject
1. The listener isn't really listening
2. The listener doesn't care about what the speaker is saying
3. The listener is more concerned with defending themselves/playing devil's advocate that hearing someone express their feelings
4. The listener is a derailing asshole
It serves NOTHING in a conversation to whine about how "not everyone is like that".
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-25 02:00 am (UTC)(link)Secondly, as I've said repeatedly from the very beginning, if a person really wants to have a conversation about this issue they're so concerned about, they'd recognize and appreciate that accusing "the listener" of something (especially if, as you say, they know that's not always/necessarily the case) also serves absolutely nothing. If you want to make assumptions and refuse to acknowledge any points someone has and be hypocritical, don't pretend you want to have a conversation.
And now I'm so done. I have better things to do than try to point out that "not everyone is like that" has almost nothing to do with what I've been saying.