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fandomsecrets2012-11-03 02:59 pm
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(Anonymous) 2012-11-03 08:24 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
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(Anonymous) 2012-11-03 09:40 pm (UTC)(link)Yeah, Abed was the dick in that scenario. He didn't "lead on" the guy; he didn't encourage him at all. Talking to someone whom you know wants sex with you doesn't constitute "leading someone on". Do you think that Abed should have said, "Oh, I just understood why you wanted to talk to me! I won't be having sex with you tonight"?
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(Anonymous) 2012-11-03 09:51 pm (UTC)(link)(And this is my bitterness rather than Abed's, but the response to "I'd like to continue talking to you but I don't want to have sex with you" is almost inevitably an end to the conversation.)
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But if you stop to think about it, is that really selfish? He didn't start talking to Abed by telling Abed he was cute or something, he chatted up Abed about one of Abed's favorite tv shows and bought him a drink. And Abed makes it apparent later that it wasn't even obvious to him at first that the guy was hitting on him. By the time Abed had figured it out, he was just having such a nice time talking about Farscape that he didn't want to end it by being blunt and saying 'this has been really enjoyable but I'm not going home with you at the end of the night.'
The fact is, Abed realized that expressing disinterest would definitely end an awesome conversation, and Abed doesn't have that many people in his life that could have that type of conversation with him.
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(Anonymous) 2012-11-03 09:20 pm (UTC)(link)you're just a filthy bed rapist
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But then I write requited Trobed so I'm definitely biased.
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i am not a spammer
Which would fit.
I know which explanation I prefer though. :D
Re: i am not a spammer
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Troy/Britta.
But then anonymouslyyours and I are of the idea that Competitive Wine Tasting and Origins of Vampire Mythology are just nightmares that Britta had while she was sleeping off being really high, so that takes care of most of that.
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I've never looked at the Farscape conversation through that lens before, though. Oof.