[ SECRET POST #2132 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2132 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Well this got long. Mild TMI. Please help?

[(Anonymous)]

You are probably reluctant to cut him out of your life because you two have a history that includes him not freaking out when you came out (for which you might feel grateful) and doing very intimate things (which not only builds emotional connections, but might have represented a sexual outlet that felt "safe" because for all the discomfort, there was no actual physical contact involved).

If you are not getting anything out of your relationship with him, then you should:

1) Cut ties. On a practical level, this is easy because he lives so far away. Just stop talking to him. Stop answering his messages, or whatever. As the other anon said, you don't need to explain anything or even make an announced exit.

2) Look for people with whom you can actually have healthy, beneficial relationships. There are always other fish in the sea, even if your orientation (whatever it turns out to be) puts you in a minority.