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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-11-03 02:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #2132 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2132 ⌋

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intrigueing: (Default)

Re: Well this got long. Mild TMI. Please help?

[personal profile] intrigueing 2012-11-03 09:40 pm (UTC)(link)
a) not being comfortable doing sexual things with a guy who pressures you and treats you like crap doesn't mean you're asexual, it means you actually have a bit of self-preservation

b) you're a dick for fooling around with a guy who had a girlfriend/dates girls without them knowing he has you on the side.

You should definitely break this off. It's not fair to you or his girlfriends, and he sounds like a complete creep.

Re: Well this got long. Mild TMI. Please help?

(Anonymous) 2012-11-03 09:52 pm (UTC)(link)
you're a dick for fooling around with a guy who had a girlfriend/dates girls without them knowing he has you on the side.

Did the OP specify if the girlfriends did or didn't know?

Re: Well this got long. Mild TMI. Please help?

(Anonymous) 2012-11-03 09:57 pm (UTC)(link)
OP here and I can confirm that as far as I know, at least half of these girls had no idea. I met two separate girlfriends at cons and they did not ID me as competition.

So yeah, I am kind of a dick and I hate him for encouraging me towards being this kind of person

Re: Well this got long. Mild TMI. Please help?

(Anonymous) 2012-11-03 10:00 pm (UTC)(link)
As much as he "encourages" you the only person you can blame for your actions are yourself. You do have a choice, you know. You're not helpless.

Re: Well this got long. Mild TMI. Please help?

(Anonymous) 2012-11-03 10:06 pm (UTC)(link)
You're right, of course.

I should take this shit onto Dr. Phil.

Re: Well this got long. Mild TMI. Please help?

(Anonymous) 2012-11-03 09:52 pm (UTC)(link)
This is exactly the kind of thing I needed to hear, thank you <3
intrigueing: (buffy eww)

Re: Well this got long. Mild TMI. Please help?

[personal profile] intrigueing 2012-11-03 10:38 pm (UTC)(link)
NP. Everyone make some bad decisions in their lives, doesn't make them bad. Just don't waste any more of your life on it after you realize it's bad.
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Re: Well this got long. Mild TMI. Please help?

[personal profile] forgottenjester 2012-11-03 09:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Dude, I didn't even think of B but I have to agree. They may be being used by this guy but they're essentially helping hurt these girls.