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⌈ Secret Post #2132 ⌋

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I had a similar relationship with one of my best friends. He was there for me when I didn't have anyone else. He was someone I could talk to, and intellectually we were always very compatible, had the same interests, laughed at the same jokes. I know I even thought he was attractive.

I thought that because that part felt right, then the rest of it should come easily to me too. I thought that not wanting to have sex with him meant that there was something wrong with me, and that when he pressured me and wanted me to do things that I didn't feel comfortable with, I should try to do it anyway, because it made him happy.

It's different in the sense that you don't have physical contact with this guy, and I'm pretty much going to tell you something as bluntly as I can. Please don't initiate it.

My friend, the person I thought loved me, who didn't stop pressuring me when I felt uncomfortable, he ended up losing his temper (which had never before happened in a 6 year friendship), and he nearly killed me. The next day he called me to apologise, said he loved me for the first time, and begged me to stay with him.

It feels like love, but the people who really love you would never want you to feel uncomfortable when you share something so intimate, would never ask you to aid them in cheating on other people, would never take advantage of the way you feel about them.

Thank you so much for sharing this. I know it's difficult but this could and almost did happen with us, and I needed to hear it from someone else.

No problem. It's easier to talk about it now, you'd be surprised how much time can change your perspective on things.

Don't know if OP or not OP, but either way, I didn't have anyone telling me how wrong things were at the time, and I never had the courage to ask anyone's advice, so I think that you being willing to hear it is a sign that you're already on the right track.

Good luck with everything. Take care of yourself.

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